First-Time Parents Guide: Disruptive Behaviors, What Can I Do to Help My Kid?

It’s commonly normal for kids to present bad behaviors such as tantrums, being defiant, not listening, among others. Normally, as parents, you must be very aware to discipline them and teach the correct way to behave.

However, when these begin to occur more continuously at home, school, or elsewhere, children exhibit disruptive behavior where discipline is difficult to find because the routine and daily life are disturbed. So, in today’s article Autism Soccer will explain what exactly means this topic.

Getting to know the disruptive behaviors

This condition will present a constant pattern of anger, defiance, backtalk, troubling managing and regulating emotions, and even the worst behaviors can show kids being hostile or aggressive with their peers, older kids, parents, and relatives. Sometimes it can look like a normal bad episode, the one that every parent has to deal with, but in reality, the disruptive behaviors are more intense, dangerous and difficult to control or discipline.

These will affect their social circle and how they interact with other figures as teachers, neighbors, and relatives. School and extracurricular activities are also affected because these terrible episodes can be present.

There are two commons types of the disruptive behaviors: oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) and conduct disorder.

Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD)

This type is less stronger than the conduct disorder; however, can present some struggles within the child. Paying attention to the symptoms is important; they can be:

  • Show tantrums and anger more regular than other kids.
  • Constantly arguing with the adults around.
  • Hard to follow orders or comply request from parents and teachers.
  • Used to blame others for their mistakes.
  • Like to annoy other children.
  • Often seek revenge of people that treat them bad.

Conduct disorder

This condition is very dangerous because involves violent and aggressive episodes. It can be diagnosed as ODD in kids very young, but later after they show their personalities, the aggression appeared. Children with this disorder can ignore and abuse others physically and emotionally, with total knowledge about what they are doing. Among the symptoms are:

  • Strong bullying toward others that can escalate to aggression.
  • Refuse to limits and boundaries, like to go to school or daily routines.
  • Abusing animals and younger kids in the neighborhood.
  • Experts in lying, stealing and vandalizing.
  • Abuse on certain substances is common.
  • Engage in physical fights with older kids.

Many parents tend to confuse a rebel teenage with an individual that is suffering from disruptive behaviors, which need expert treatment. Talking constantly with teachers, friends and know their responses will be important to seek correct help from professionals. Know that you as parents are not alone, many people are just like you, trying to know how to help their children to control these bad behaviors.

Experts are the best way to start the corrects treatments, but your work at home is equally important: never think less of your duties. Remember, disruptive behaviors can be conditions that can produce violent episodes, so never minimize the seriousness of them, they are not a common rebellious attitude: the health of your kids and people around them can be in danger.

How can you help your son or daughter with disruptive behavior at home?

Discipline with positive attitude

This condition shows different attitudes, but it doesn’t mean that kids can’t present good ones. When that happens, reward them while you praise them and show affection. For example, let them eat their favorite food or take them to a place they want to visit, try not to provide material things because they can trick you into a loop which can be difficult to break.

Punishment after the misbehavior

Never wait for the next day to punish them for a mistake. Making kids understand where and why is the mistake will be important for them to be responsible adults. Whatever the punishment, it must come right there, that way children will completely comprehend what is bad, and how to improve.

Minor behaviors

Every child makes different little mistakes, like spilling juice or water because they are not paying enough attention. Children with disruptive behaviors can present the same mistakes, but for them is more important the correction and what they can learn from it, cleaning or correct their own errors can be of great help for them. So explain to them what is wrong and how to find a solution.

These small but important steps can be perfect for your kids with disruptive behaviors because you’re dealing with the problem even with all the fears that this condition may present. Always trust the pediatrician and therapist in what to do at home and school for them to improve day after day.

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First-Time Parents Guide: Should I Give to My Kid Special Education?

Special education schools and programs can be a great way to attend the different needs of kids with certain conditions because they can offer tailored instruction, specialized support, and crucial resources and services for them. However, as first-time parents of a child with autism, there can be some doubts about these places.

There are different programs and types, all of them with their pros and cons. Choosing one will depend on the attention and support needed every day and how well he or she can integrate to the environment and people there.

Programs and types of special education

A little guide to explain what are the distinctions among them

Full-time options

  • Dedicated schools: these are completely dedicated to children with one or more special conditions. every activity and class is totally focused on helping them to improve their abilities and education.
  • Dedicated classes: regular schools offer special courses to improve and help kids with special conditions; however, they don’t have the more extreme condition, so here teachers fulfill or work with the difficulties that they can present.

Part-time options

  • Integrated classes: some academies can offer integrated classes with neurotypical and special boys or girls interacting at the same time.
  • Withdrawal classes: other schools have the withdrawal or pull out courses, where students can have a regular education but are absent for some period to receive treatment or support.
  • Regular class with resource support: children can have breaks for support, alone or in groups, with staff with expertise in the area.
  • Regular class with indirect support: here regular teachers adapt their classes and lessons to engage kids with special needs, not just with the knowledge but also with the rest of the students.

Pros and cons of the special education

Pros

The benefits of the programs, classes and schools for kids with special needs can be many. Of course, it will depend of the parents’ final decision.

  • Support: boys and girls can receive all the help and attention that they will need according to their conditions. This can include the areas accommodations, playgrounds, and even the food.
  • Qualified teachers: they have the best certification and experience treating children with different conditions.
  • Instructions: every lesson is made under the final goal to meet the special learning needs of every student.
  • Special resources and services: many of these offer services like speech-language therapy, academic and psychological counseling, physical and occupational therapy, tutoring programs, and a few more.
  • Inclusion: within these schools, students can find friends and peers that are dealing and battle every day with the same conditions as them, so they can improve the social interaction among them or other abilities that can be very hard to do in regular academies.

Cons

Even when we truly recommend special education for your son or daughter, there can be some cons with it. However, they can be overcome because, sometimes, children within the spectrum just need someone that truly understand them.

  • Integration: it is good for them, but there won’t be any with neurotypical kids. Thus, different influences can’t be present among them.
  • Stigma: special needs term can be connoted as a bad one. They can be victims of bullying. If this is the case, remember to take the right actions against it.
  • Academics: sometimes, the education level in these schools can be lower than in regular schools. So if the parents are looking for a higher step in education planning for university, maybe these are not the best choice.
  • Transition: if the parents decide to change from a special education school to a regular one, the transition can be hard.

Special education schools are a good way to help kids with different conditions to learn and advance in academics, besides to support them and improve other abilities in different areas. But even with this article, the final decision will be yours as parents because you know what is the best for your kids.

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First-Parents Guide: All You Need to Know About Your Kid with Autism

Do you have a kid with autism? Then you’re probably worried, especially if you do not know enough about autism and all it represents. The first thing you have to know is that, just like you, there are many parents around the world with the same thoughts going through their minds, so you’re not the only one who’s worried. Lucky for all of you, we live on an age where efforts to understand autism are quite remarkable, and knowledge about this condition is constantly growing; thanks to this, we have a better understanding about the right way to raise a child with autism.

Things you need to know about your kid with autism

What is autism?

Let’s start with the basic, ASD (autistic spectrum disorder) is a complex neurobehavioral lifetime condition. That’s right, a condition -not a disease-; therefore, it can’t be cured. This is important to understand because people tend to believe autism is considered a disease. Despite different theories and studies, nobody knows exactly what causes autism; nonetheless, genetic and environmental are the most accepted possible causes for the scientific community.

How does autism affect a kid?

The common characteristics of people with autism are often related to their social skills, this happens because the vast majority of them have difficulties in holding a conversation the same way that a neurotypical person would. They are also often expressed in particular ways, which is why many people find it hard to understand what children with autism try to communicate; however, as we pay attention to their behavior, we can understand them more easily.

Therapy can make a difference

Every kid with autism presents a different case, and even though you can learn a lot about ASD, it’s always recommendable to go to a specialist in the matter (after all, they’re the ones who make the diagnosis and propose the right treatments to help the kid). Working alongside the specialist, you will create different strategies to help your kid overcome every obstacle in his/her way so, as said before, is highly recommended to get help.

Kids with autism can be really different

Kids with autism tend to have things in common, but that does not mean they will behave the same way, autism can manifest very differently in each kid, therefore, if you know other kids with autism, thinking your child will be just like them is a mistake. It is essential to keep this in mind since your kid might need more help than other kids with ASD or, by the other hand, just a bit of help can be enough.

They’re different, don’t expect them to act like us

Sometimes, kids with autism will show unusual reactions to common events; this happens because they perceive the world in a different way, that’s why people with autism show particular behaviors that most people find weird. The mistake a lot of us do is expecting people with autism to act like us, even when they’re obviously different. Instead of hoping for them to change, what we should do is try to understand them, once we do that, we will see that we have more things in common than differences.

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